DAMN!!! three notes in one day?!?!?! DON IS KILLIN IT!!!! lol but anyway on to the topic of the day...err of the hour... happiness. today on V103, the topic was "would you give up everything, friends, family, career, just to be happy" so me and my mom got in this whole philosophical conversation about it. my whole thing was who can define what happiness is, because the way they were saying that the happiness was the love of a man/woman. the example they used was Starr Jones and her whole marriage. now in my opinion, that is a bad example for a few reason. 1. the marriage was too short. 2. the marriage was too overexposed. and 3. this is an isolated case of marriage and the perception of happiness ruining one's career. and so i started thinkin: no matter what, ppl will want to be happy with another person because what is everything without happiness. because the lack of something is the lack of everything. while its not a physical possession, no one wants to be 75 years old and wake up in a single person bed. no one wants to be victim of the Cityboy Curse (see MILF Vol. 3).
now in my personal experience, i have lived on both sides of the fence: i was "in love" with someone and sacrificed many many things to be with her. i lost the respect of family members, friends stopped talking to me, i even lost a job opportunity, but none of that mattered because i was with someone who i loved, and [who i thought] loved me.
conversely, in a somewhat similar but totally arbitrary situation, i turned into a total dick. i had no love for anyone...but i had what i want, i had friends, everyone respected me, but i was miserable because nobody had affection for me. and thats what matters.
now you ask of both scenarios, which would a choose to go thru again. honestly, i would give up everything, or at least somethings to be with someone who i loved [and, according to experience, that may happen again]. because if ppl leave u or lose respect for u for no good reason other than the fact that you are with someone, then they really dont care about u as much as they say they do. now i wont take it to an extreme and say nobody liked her cuz she was a hoe, because then yes, i would be stupid. but if there is nothing wrong with the girl, shes sweet polite, doesnt cheat, the whole nine, and people dont like her, then everyone, you and your loved ones need to reevaluate what the respective relationships mean.
aint that just ignant?
anyway, till next time peace, love and all that jazz
and remember to always rokk your body to its CoR
iloveyou sweetness
now in my personal experience, i have lived on both sides of the fence: i was "in love" with someone and sacrificed many many things to be with her. i lost the respect of family members, friends stopped talking to me, i even lost a job opportunity, but none of that mattered because i was with someone who i loved, and [who i thought] loved me.
conversely, in a somewhat similar but totally arbitrary situation, i turned into a total dick. i had no love for anyone...but i had what i want, i had friends, everyone respected me, but i was miserable because nobody had affection for me. and thats what matters.
now you ask of both scenarios, which would a choose to go thru again. honestly, i would give up everything, or at least somethings to be with someone who i loved [and, according to experience, that may happen again]. because if ppl leave u or lose respect for u for no good reason other than the fact that you are with someone, then they really dont care about u as much as they say they do. now i wont take it to an extreme and say nobody liked her cuz she was a hoe, because then yes, i would be stupid. but if there is nothing wrong with the girl, shes sweet polite, doesnt cheat, the whole nine, and people dont like her, then everyone, you and your loved ones need to reevaluate what the respective relationships mean.
aint that just ignant?
anyway, till next time peace, love and all that jazz
and remember to always rokk your body to its CoR
iloveyou sweetness
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